I am tall, standing well over 6 feet. I have a mustache that I’ve had since my freshman year in college, and I’m very reluctant to shave it off, and probably never will. I also have big feet and have never found women’s shoes that fit comfortably or are even bearable. The questions remain: why do I crossdress? And does passing matter? I’ve never found a satisfying answer … [Read more...] about How Important Is “Passing”?
Crossdressing
Wearing a Bra to Doctor Appointments
I have been wearing a bra daily for many years, actually decades. With my naturally larger-than-normal male breasts and my love for crossdressing, even if it's just under-dressing, bras have become my favorite piece of clothing. I wear a bra every day, everywhere, including work, shopping, and outings with friends. However, I don't draw attention to it. My clothing usually … [Read more...] about Wearing a Bra to Doctor Appointments
Low Cut Dress, Black Lace Bra
A couple of my dresses are low cut enough that it's almost impossible to wear without exposing my bra at least a little. The dress I wore today is one of them. I love this dress — a long, midi-length swirly skirt, stretchy material with a surplice style top, black and white squares design, similar to the first dress Myla bought for me years ago. I have a couple of bras I … [Read more...] about Low Cut Dress, Black Lace Bra
Nudism and Nighties
Most nights, I sleep in the nude, ideally without any covers at all, not even a sheet. (Secret fantasy: being seen naked while I’m asleep.) The only time that changes is if the bedroom is cold — in that case, I’ll still sleep naked if I can, but with a sheet over me, and then a comforter on top of that if necessary. When it gets really cold in the winter and I need more warmth, … [Read more...] about Nudism and Nighties
Cooler Weather, Warmer Dresses
It’s certainly not cold out yet, but it’s cooler out, and we haven’t turned the heat on yet. So, a warmer dress is certainly not out of place. This is one of my favorites, made from 94% polyester and 6% spandex — it’s thin, stretchy, and sexy. It’s one of the few dresses I have that have ¾ length sleeves. It’s also one of my shorter dresses, coming to about two inches … [Read more...] about Cooler Weather, Warmer Dresses