I am tall, standing well over 6 feet. I have a mustache that I’ve had since my freshman year in college, and I’m very reluctant to shave it off, and probably never will. I also have big feet and have never found women’s shoes that fit comfortably or are even bearable. The questions remain: why do I crossdress? And does passing matter? I’ve never found a satisfying answer … [Read more...] about How Important Is “Passing”?
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Low Cut Dress, Black Lace Bra
A couple of my dresses are low cut enough that it's almost impossible to wear without exposing my bra at least a little. The dress I wore today is one of them. I love this dress — a long, midi-length swirly skirt, stretchy material with a surplice style top, black and white squares design, similar to the first dress Myla bought for me years ago. I have a couple of bras I … [Read more...] about Low Cut Dress, Black Lace Bra
Cooler Weather, Warmer Dresses
It’s certainly not cold out yet, but it’s cooler out, and we haven’t turned the heat on yet. So, a warmer dress is certainly not out of place. This is one of my favorites, made from 94% polyester and 6% spandex — it’s thin, stretchy, and sexy. It’s one of the few dresses I have that have ¾ length sleeves. It’s also one of my shorter dresses, coming to about two inches … [Read more...] about Cooler Weather, Warmer Dresses
From Drab to Dress
Myla and I had a number of errands to run this morning including an appointment for bloodwork for me at a local lab diagnostics office. We weren’t going anywhere where I needed to be overly dressed, and it’s still warm out, so I wore a polo shirt, shorts, and my Crocs. Oh, and a bra under the shirt, since I was only giving blood, no worry about having to remove my short-sleeved … [Read more...] about From Drab to Dress
Man in a Dress
One of the blessings of the COVID-19 pandemic the world is experiencing right now, if it may be called a blessing, is that I get to spend most of my time at home and can dress (or undress) however I like. Aside from an occasional Zoom meeting or a trip to the grocery store or a doctor's appointment, I spend my days at home with my significant other. I lost my job back in … [Read more...] about Man in a Dress